Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Don Meyer - Evening of Excellence


I wrote the piece below back in 2009 after the first annual Don Meyer - Evening of Excellence at Lipscomb University.  Today I saw on Twitter that Coach Meyer has been put under hospice care so I thought it appropriate to repost my summary of that night five years ago.  Here y'all go:

As a college basketball junkie; allow me to rephrase.  As a basketball junkie in general (If you are keeping up with the Bulls vs. Celtics series and saw the triple overtime game 6, you would understand), I was thrilled to be able to work in a freelance role with my wife, Shay, at the Don Meyer - Evening of Excellence on the campus of Lipscomb University on Tuesday, April 28th.

Coach Meyer has been coaching college basketball since 1972, and he spent 24 years at Lipscomb University in Nashville, TN. Twice NAIA Coach of the Year during his tenure coaching the Bisons, he led them to the 1986 NAIA National Championship. Coach Meyer has been in the trenches on the hardwood, involved in many tough athletic battles. However, his most difficult battle began off the court on September 5, 2008, when a horrific car crash almost cost the famed coach his earthly life. Grant Wahl of Sports Illustrated tells the story quite well; here's the link below:


Always the witty speaker, Coach Meyer states the following 3 things as "what he learned from his wreck most of all":
  1. You should wear a seatbelt.
  2. Don't fall asleep while driving.
  3. If you do fall asleep, don't run a Prius into a semi.

Obviously, these statements drew a laugh.

Shay and I shot 2 hours of footage at the event which included the following:

An excellent dinner; there were multiple eating sites. Each NCAA Atlantic Sun Team had a room set up where the athletes were in attendance, and a highlight DVD was playing honoring the ‘08- ’09 season (for each respective sport). The men's basketball team was in the old gym - McQuiddy - where many of the past and present Bisons were in attendance. There was also a main seating area in Allen Arena where Coach Meyer offered up a very entertaining Q & A session with former all-time leading scorer in college basketball and current Athletic Director at LU - Philip Hutcheson.

After the dinners, the main address began at 7:30, and this event was introduced by ESPN Senior Writer - Buster Olney. Since we were both working the event (although in obviously different capacities), and Buster is such a great baseball writer/reporter, I took the opportunity to pick his brain on the Brian McCann eye infection situation that is hurting the lineup of my beloved Braves. True to form, Buster was a super nice guy who loved talking the National Pastime with me. Olney has done an ESPN E60 feature story on Coach Meyer, and he is well qualified to speak on the topic. One of Olney's first gigs was working under Joe Biddle at The Nashville Banner (beginning in 1988 - during a great span for DLU). While writing in Nashville, he was a beat writer for college basketball in the city, and he had a great story line in the mighty Bisons.
 
A video presentation preceded the keynote address by Coach Meyer, and it was a very well done piece. Lipscomb Alum, Jimmy Chaffin, is a partner at Dye, Van Mol & Lawrence Public Relations & Advertising, and he served as the mastermind/editor for this wonderful video which featured many highlights on and off the court during the 24 year span Coach Meyer roamed the sidelines for the Bisons. (In fact, this is the advertising firm that Shay and I were shooting footage for during the event. She had a camera shot in the video for Coach Meyer too.) The video was great.  It pulled some tears from the crowd.
 
Dr. Don Meyer was the Keynote Speaker, and he stood several times throughout the night, but "Little Buddy" (as he colorfully refers to his "nub" where a leg used to be) confines him to a wheel chair for much of his waking hours. As he made his way to the podium, however, the entire crowd stood to welcome a popular figure back to the Nashville campus. The speech was excellent with both funny and serious moments; here's a sampling:
 
Coach Meyer has 3 rules during his very famous and heavily attended basketball camps: 1.) Pick up trash. (Leave a place better than you found it. He referred to how his teams would oftentimes leave the visitor's locker room in better shape than they found it during road games.) 2.) Please & Thank You & Yes Sir  &Yes Mam. (In basketball, the classroom, business world & life, the little things matter.) 3. Everyone takes notes. (Continual improvement or Kaizen). These rules made me think of my best friends, Andy Woods and Justin Woods, who tell great stories of weeks at camp on the Nashville campus which consisted of "sitting on the wall" and "push-ups" to the point of bodily failure and soreness like you've never felt before. While the "steely eyes" of Coach Meyer could be intimidating, the camps also greatly improved the basketball games for each one of them.
 
A great quote from the address: "Competitors don't have time to complain. They're too busy getting things done."
 
"F Words" learned during the immediate recovery from his wreck: Faith: Coach stated he "lost 7% of his body mass each week he was bed ridden after the wreck.” During this time, he created a prayer list of people to pray for because, "You have to pray for other people before you pray for yourself.”  Peace isn't the absence of storms or trials. Peace is the calm you have in the middle of the storm.” Coach Meyer stated the most intense pain he has ever felt is when the bandage covering "Little Buddy" was changed in the hospital. In fact, he stated that the bandage would "attach to his open would and be peeled off.”  Not a good image, huh? During these times, he would scream/sing the following hymn all Evangelical Christians should know by heart: "Praise the Lord! Praise the Lord! Let the earth hear His voice. Praise the Lord! Praise the Lord! Let the people rejoice. Oh, come to the Father through Jesus the Son, and give Him the glory, great things He hath done." Family - "Carmen did it all. She kept on top of my medical info and sometimes knew more than the doctors about my condition." (This reminded me of my mom who kept copious notes during my dad's many bouts with cancer and would set out for the best options possible.) Coach made mention of his kids, grandkids, etc. Friends: Coach Meyer made mention of many who made the trip to see him in the hospital and the tons of letters, etc. Fitness - "The first time I had to walk 120 feet, it was very tough. I had to have the discipline to do the little things every day."
 
Coach Meyer gave a great lesson that really hit home with me because of my job as a Project Manager for Franke Foodservice, managing New Store, Rebuild and Remodel Projects for McDonald's. The very first McDonald's was in Illinois, and Coach Meyer said that this store used Pepsi products: (paraphrase): "During a very busy Saturday, the only McDonald's at that time ran out of Pepsi, and they made a phone call to Pepsi requesting they bring them some of the cola to the restaurant so they could quench the thirst of the customers. The person who answered the phone after hearing the plea, simply stated: “It's Saturday, and we don't deliver Pepsi to nobody on Saturday.” That very next Monday, McDonald's signed an exclusive contract with Coke. If Coke were to lose every account but hold onto McDonald's, they would be just fine.” Sounds like another company I am familiar with.  Coach Meyer went on to say, "People make/form their opinions of a company or organization based off the particular individual they deal with. That one rude representative of Pepsi cost the company millions and millions of dollars." I found this to be food for thought.
 
An autograph session was next where I was able to tell Coach Meyer how much I enjoyed watching him coach in my hometown at my Alma Mater Freed-Hardeman University in Bader Gymnasium. The two schools were fierce rivals, both being Church of Christ institutions. FHU usually came out on the "short end of the stick,” but the games were highly competitive and fun between the teams and crowds. He mentioned how hot it would get in Bader, and that's the truth a real "sweat box" as he called it.
 
After signing autographs for over one hour, the night concluded in McQuiddy where it was only the former players, Coach Meyer and a handful of people (including Shay and me getting the video evidence). Coach gathered the team around him for a huddle, photo and private pep talk. This was special to witness, and several successful coaches and others were surrounding the legendary coach including Union University women's coach Mark Campbell, Freed - Hardeman University's men's coach Jason Shelton, the founder of Rivals.com, John Pierce and three point bomber Andy McQueen.  The list goes on and on.
 
In conclusion, this was a wonderful fund raising event for the Athletic Department at Lipscomb University, and it allowed a school to reconnect with the glory years of its basketball program and the head coach who brought them that success.

Eric